12 Headstone Buying Mistakes to Avoid

Buying a headstone usually happens once or twice in a lifetime, during a hard time. These are the mistakes we see most often — and the simple steps that prevent them.

1. Not getting the cemetery's rules first

Size limits, permitted types and foundation rules vary. Get them in writing — see cemetery rules.

2. Choosing a size the section doesn't allow

A beautiful upright is no use in a flat-marker section.

3. Lettering that's too small

Names should usually be at least 1.5–2 inches high to read from a few steps away.

4. Too much text

Long verses crowd the stone and shrink the letters. Pick one meaningful line.

5. Low-contrast choices

Thin script on grey granite, or grey letters on grey stone, can be hard to read. See raised vs recessed lettering.

6. Rushing the proof

Check every letter, date and accent — see our proof checklist.

7. Forgetting the living spouse

On companion stones, leave space and record the font for the final date.

8. Ignoring extra fees

Cemetery foundation, installation and care-and-maintenance fees are often separate — see Ontario fees for an example.

9. Unrealistic timing

Allow three to four months — see the ordering timeline.

10. Not checking granite quality

Ask about thickness, polish and colour consistency — see our quality guide.

11. Skipping the delivery inspection

Inspect and photograph on arrival — see the delivery checklist.

12. Deciding alone when family expects a say

Share a draft or design image and agree wording before approving.

Key Takeaways

• Get cemetery rules first and size to them.
• Keep lettering large and text short.
• Check proofs, fees and timing carefully.

Next Step

Build a draft in the Design Studio and share it with family before ordering.