How to Cover a Headstone for an Unveiling

Many families cover the new headstone before the ceremony and lift the cloth together as a symbolic moment. Doing it well takes a little preparation.

Choosing the fabric

• Plain cotton or linen — simple and dignified.
• Satin or velvet — more formal; heavier fabrics stay put in wind.
• White, cream, navy or dark green are common colours.
• A tablecloth or sheet works perfectly well.

Choose a size that covers the whole face and drapes past the sides.

Securing it safely

Never use tape, glue or tacks on granite — they leave residue or scratches. Instead:

• Tie a soft ribbon or cord around the stone and base.
• Use small sandbags or smooth stones on the base to hold the hem.
• Sew small weights into the hem for windy days.
• Use soft clips only on fabric, not on the stone.

The unveiling moment

1. Untie the ribbon quietly before speaking.
2. Choose who will lift the cloth — often the spouse, children or grandchildren together.
3. Lift from the back so the cloth slides off the face.
4. Pause for a moment of silence before readings begin.

See what to say at a dedication.

Afterwards

Fold the cloth and keep it — many families treasure it or use it again for later dedications. Check the stone for lint or marks and wipe gently with a soft cloth.

Key Takeaways

• A simple cloth that drapes past the sides works best.
• Never tape or glue anything to granite.
• Weights and ribbon hold the cover in wind.
• Lift from the back so it slides off cleanly.

Next Step

See Jewish unveiling traditions and readings for an unveiling.