Companion Flat Grave Markers: A Guide

In lawn cemeteries and memorial parks, couples often share a single flat marker that spans both graves. It keeps them together on one memorial while meeting the cemetery's flat-marker rules.

Common sizes

Companion flat markers are typically 36 to 44 inches wide and 12 to 14 inches tall, about 4 inches thick. Some cemeteries specify exact sizes; check before ordering. See how to measure a grave plot.

Layouts

• Surname across the top, first names and dates on each side.
• A shared emblem in the centre — rings, a cross or hearts.
• A shared epitaph along the bottom.
• A bronze vase in the centre, where allowed.

Granite or bronze?

Granite flat markers are durable and affordable; black granite allows etched portraits. Bronze plaques on granite bases are required in some memorial parks. See bronze plaque vs granite flat marker.

Adding the second date

Most couples engrave both names and birth dates at once. The second date is added later, on site for granite or by replacing a date plate on bronze. See adding a final date.

Choosing artwork for a shared marker

Flat markers are small, so keep artwork simple. A single central emblem — interlocking rings, a cross or two hearts — keeps the design balanced between two names. On black granite, an etched portrait of the couple can sit in the centre. Avoid placing artwork in the corners where mowers often scuff the stone. See couple photo on a companion headstone and wedding rings meaning.

Key Takeaways

• Companion flat markers are usually 36–44 inches wide.
• The surname often runs across the top.
• Granite and bronze are both common.
• The second date is added later.

Next Step

See flat grave marker wording and flat marker cost.