Can Ashes Be Buried in an Existing Family Grave?

Many families choose to place cremated remains in a parent's or grandparent's grave. It is usually possible, and it keeps the family together.

Is it allowed?

Most cemeteries allow one or more urns to be interred in an existing grave, subject to their rules. Ask the cemetery office:

• How many cremated remains can be added to the grave
• Whether an urn vault is required
• The interment (opening) fee
• Who must sign the authorisation

Who gives permission?

The interment rights holder (lot owner) — or their legal heirs if the owner has died — usually signs the authorisation. See who owns a headstone.

Adding the name

The new name and dates can usually be engraved on the existing headstone on site. If there is no room:

• Use the back of the stone — see engraving the back.
• Add a flat marker or footstone — see footstones.
• Add a panel or a small companion marker, if allowed.

See adding a name to an existing headstone.

Matching the lettering

Take a clear, straight-on photo of the existing inscription and measure the letter height. The engraver will match the font and depth as closely as possible.

Key Takeaways

• Most cemeteries allow urns in an existing grave.
• The lot owner or heirs sign the authorisation.
• The name can go on the front, back, a footstone or a flat marker.

Next Step

Planning an additional marker? Request a quote.