Peony on a Headstone: Meaning

Peonies are lush, generous flowers that return every spring, often for decades from the same plant. Their full blooms have made them a symbol of honour, prosperity and a happy, long-lasting marriage.

What it means

In Chinese and Japanese tradition

In China the peony is known as the "king of flowers" and stands for honour, wealth and good fortune. In Japan it's associated with bravery and good luck. Peonies make a meaningful choice for families of Chinese or Japanese heritage — see Chinese headstone traditions.

Colour meanings

• Pink — romance and a happy marriage.
• Red — honour and respect.
• White — remembrance and peace.

Peonies are also a traditional flower for a 12th wedding anniversary.

Design ideas

• A full peony etched in fine detail on black granite.
• Twin peonies on a companion headstone — see companion headstones.
• A border of peonies across the top.
• A peony with a butterfly for renewal.

Who it suits

Married couples, grandmothers who grew peonies for years, families of Chinese or Japanese heritage, and anyone remembered with honour. See flower meanings and rose meaning.

Epitaphs

"A life of honour", "Blooming every spring", "Together in bloom", "Loved and honoured always".

Key Takeaways

• Peonies mean honour, prosperity and a happy marriage.
• In China they're the "king of flowers".
• Twin peonies suit companion headstones.
• Black granite shows fine peony etching.

Next Step

See lotus meaning.