Lily of the Valley on a Headstone: Meaning

Lily of the valley is a small, fragrant spring flower with nodding white bells. On headstones it speaks of humility, sweetness and the return of happiness.

What it means

History

In Christian legend, lily of the valley sprang from Mary's tears at the cross, linking it with Mary and humility. In France, people give sprigs (muguet) on May 1 for good luck. It's also the traditional birth flower of May.

Design ideas

• A delicate sprig curving beside the name.
• Bells in white on black granite.
• A border of lily of the valley.
• With a rose for a mother — see rose meaning.

Who it suits

Gentle, modest people; mothers and grandmothers; anyone born in May; and French and Québécois families. See flower meanings.

Growing lily of the valley near a grave

Lily of the valley spreads easily in shade, which makes it a lovely living tribute where cemeteries allow planting. However, it spreads quickly and is poisonous if eaten, so check cemetery rules and plant it only where it won't creep into neighbouring plots or be reached by children or pets. Many families prefer the carved version for that reason. See planting flowers on a grave.

Key Takeaways

• Lily of the valley means humility and returning happiness.
• It's the birth flower of May.
• It's linked with Mary in Christian legend.
• Delicate sprigs etch beautifully.

Next Step

See lily meaning.