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Grave Blankets and Christmas Decorations for Graves

The winter tradition of evergreen grave blankets, other Christmas grave decorations, cemetery rules on timing and removal, and tips that protect the headstone.

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In Canada and the northern US, many families cover a loved one's grave with evergreens for the holidays.

What is a grave blanket?

An arrangement of evergreen boughs — pine, fir, cedar — laid over the grave, often decorated with pine cones, ribbon and a bow. The tradition is especially strong in the Midwest and parts of Canada.

Other winter decorations

  • Wreaths on stands or saddles over the headstone
  • Small artificial trees
  • Grave pillows
  • Battery candles or lanterns (check rules)

Cemetery rules

Typical ruleNotes
Placement windowOften from late November
Removal dateMany cemeteries clear decorations in early spring
Size limitsSome restrict blankets to the grave's footprint
Banned itemsGlass, fencing, and sometimes lights

See decoration rules.

Protecting the headstone

  • Use saddles or stands rather than wire wrapped around the stone.
  • Avoid tape or adhesives on granite.
  • Keep metal stakes away from the base to avoid rust — see rust stains.

Other winter holidays

Winter remembrance isn't only Christmas:

  • Hanukkah — some families visit graves.
  • New Year — a quiet visit.
  • Orthodox Christmas in January.

See protecting a headstone in winter.

Making a grave blanket at home

Many families make their own:

  1. Start with a frame of chicken wire or a wooden lattice.
  2. Layer evergreen boughs — balsam, pine or cedar.
  3. Add pine cones, red ribbons and weather-proof ornaments.
  4. Keep it light enough to lift and remove in spring.

Never wire it to the headstone; lay it on the grave. Check the cemetery's dates for winter decorations.

Key Takeaways

  • Grave blankets are a winter tradition across the north.
  • Check placement and removal dates.
  • Use saddles and avoid wire, tape and metal on the stone.

Next Step

Read cemetery etiquette.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a grave blanket?

An arrangement of evergreen boughs laid over a grave in winter, often decorated with cones and ribbon.

When can Christmas decorations go on graves?

Often from late November. Each cemetery sets its own dates and removal deadline.

How do you attach a wreath to a headstone?

Use a headstone saddle or stand. Avoid wire, tape or adhesives on the granite.

How do you make a grave blanket?

Layer evergreen boughs on a wire or wooden frame, add cones and ribbons, and keep it light enough to remove.

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